ok, so just a random look into my past
Back in the day when i was at school at MSU (Morehead State in KY)
I met this guy online, and he insisted that he knew this friend of mine (who is expired)
and so I started talking to him
He lived in FL at the time (Gainesville), and I lived in KY
We started talking in December, and he was one of those guys who always said the right thing, and was such a smooth talker/smooth emailer and all that fun stuff
I fell INSTANTLY in love with him, so, we met I think maybe in December and or January when he drove to KY to meet me... still IN LOVE!!
So, he wanted me to come down there for spring break, so I flew to Florida in March and we spent the week together, he chose that time to propose to me while we were staying at Cocoa Beach
So, we were all in love and engaged blah blah blah...
about July of that year, we decided we could not live long distance anymore... so I moved my ENITRE life to FL, now, I had never ever lived anywhere but my hometown and college campus...
so it was quite the move for me....
So, I had moved into my own house (with another roomate) and we lived separately, he was renting a room from another couple or whatever..
so while I was there he became more and more controlling... to the point that he wanted to transport me to and from everywhere, mostly b/c I think he wanted to know where I was at all times... it got really out of control, he controlled my money, we had a joint bank account, he took all of my tips... it was really bad, I didnt even have any money to buy a bar of soap b/c he insisted that he should have control of all of "our" assets
So anyway... i started to get suspicious (like 3 months later), mind you, I was young and niaeve at the time.. so gimme a little room for error
and I started snooping in his apartment and found his marriage license to this woman Amy who he was "renting a room from" and found all the wedding photos, and the wedding dress... and her SS card with her first name and his last name.. they had gotten married in February, the momth before he proposed to me
So, anyway, I decided that was it, told him I knew everything (he continued to deny EVERYTHING) and moved back to Ohio....
I was still young and nieve and stupid so kept dating him on and off long disance and still fonned over him b/c I was still desperately in love with him...
but a few years later finally got my head on straight and stopped doing the on again off again thing... I occasionally call him, I dont know why really... but I do
He is a friend of mine on Facebook... I think I do these things to keep tabs on him
he is even uglier than I remember!!! |