As Questioned.... | 03/22/2015 |
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I read one of my comments and noticed that someone was curious as to why i am a single mom. So I figured I would explain (not that i need to) why.
Adisyn: Her biological father, Jordan, was an amazing guy when I first met him. But after a while, he got on drugs real bad. He had invited me over one day and I went over. He ended up getting messed up on the drugs and I was forced to stay at his house. I was scared. He was a smooth talker and no one ever believed he did anything wrong. He would walk me to work, sit there, and walk me back to his house everyday. Sure, I've tried to leave. But he always found me. Im not going to say I was raped (i was told that since I never said no...then it wasnt rape). But i felt like i had no choice. I was scared. So i let him take me. Whenever. I ended up pregnant (terrified) and I told him. That pissed him off! "Im about to be deployed and you want to ruin my life like that?!" Soon after, the fighting got worse and worse. i was 3 months along when he pushed me out of a moving car, which luckily wasnt going fast at all and I wasnt harmed. I ran. I ran to my mom's house. He caught up to me and after more fighting, which ended in cuts and burns on my face, mom heard the yelling and called the police. He ran. Scared of course. But when I told the police what was going on...."he's in the Armed Forced. We are proud of such men who put their lives on the line for us. It's better to let him deploy than pursue this in court." So i left town... to this day he doesnt even know she was born, let alone that she was a girl.
Ehren: His biological father, Josh, just cant seem to grow up. He cant keep (let alone find) a job. He uses whatever money he has on drugs and alcohol. He was very jealous and super insecure. I had a bbq one day, inviting ppl from my job. One guy that I happen to invite was a guy I'll call Herbie. Herbie is gay and very much so. It radiated off of him like heavy perfume lol. Josh was not happy that i intentionally invited another guy to the bbq. We fought about my having a gay-guy friend. "I swear, if I had a gun right now...I'd shoot you in the motherf***n face". I didnt want to be with someone like that. So I told him he needed to leave. I try to be friends with him, for the sake of his kids (he claimed my Adisyn as well as Ehren) but even as friends...he yells at me, throws beer bottles, punches walls, etc.
Rylee: Basically...when his biological father, Anthony, told him "abort him. Im not going to have a bastard as a son"...I left. I wasnt going to have an abortion.
Shianne: Her father...found out about my being pregnant...he left town (for work) and doesnt acknowledge me about her. So why bother right?
Those are the reasons behind why each father is not around and why I am a single mom. NOW...it's just hard finding someone that wants to be someone that has 4 kids. lol. Im not complaining....too much. I do get lonely. But I am sure you are wondering about child support??? Am i right? lol. I get none on any of my kids. If i was to get it...it'd be only on Ehren and Shianne. But why go through the courts to force the absent parent to be a part of my kids lives? I dont want their money. I want them to have a presence in their lives. But i want them to do it on their own, not by force.
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Anyways...gotta go for now. Comment all you want but please do not judge me.
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