i know. believe me, i have been there. the best thing you could do for either of you is just make sure he knows you are there no matter what. once yall get through whatever ails him, it will be so much better.
sorry that last comment from me was posted on the wrong thing. it was meant as a reply to another one i had written. anyhow, i hope you feel much better soon. its not fun being sick, in any sense of the word.