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Waiting on our Princess
by ♥ Bella

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05/14/2009

I had my first day at work the other day and it didn't go too bad I guess. It was highly slow, I could count all the patients we had all day on probably one hand. They are going paperless though and so there is a million old files I am supposed to start scanning on my down time to make sure there is good copies in the computer when they shred the other ones. The next day was a bit more retarded though. There were a few moments when they treated me like I was some kind of dumb ass because I was the young one. Like they asked if there were more USB ports on the side of the computer tower and I said yeah right here. No No those aren't usb ports. It has a microphone symbol above it..... well thats because the hole above it is to plug a microphone into. Dr comes in and says they are usb ports and suddenly its golden.... Stupid. I guess you have to be the pee on for a while til they know you can do it.

The dog has started crapping in the house again out of the blue. She was doing so good for a while and now I think every time she has to go to the bathroom its on the floor. We took her back to the vet today as well, she has no worms, no nothing for any reason she should be throwing up and pooping like she is. So they just gave her something to help with the bacteria in her stomach and hopefully it helps. I dunno, its really dumb. She is being idiotic and I don't think her crapping in the house has anything to do with being sick if they couldn't find anything , I think it is just her spiting us again. She did it once before she knows to do it again.

So...... Does the mother up your ass at the beginning of your marriage ever stop? I love her to death . She is as sweet as can be but I feel like she is right around the corner all the time. For example. She called the other night. I wasn't around my phone and by the time I was it was too late to call her. So the next day she texts me . Again asks me how work was going so I told her that it was fine blah blah blah but I was trying to nap so when Josh got home we could watch a movie. So she says she will call me this weekend..... bah! So then when I was getting ready to take Molly in to the vet this morning I put my status on face book to something along the effects of

" The dog better hope for her sake she is sick or has some sort of disease otherwise she is about to start getting into a lot more trouble."


So then I checked my comments on the way to town from dropping Molly off at home again and she left a few comments asking what is going on . Well I check it but never reply from my phone so I figured when I got online like I am now after getting home I would tell her the gist of what had been happening. OoOoO no. Less then 2 hours later she hasn't heard from me and she texts Josh and asks him whats wrong with the dog. Are you freaking kidding me! Give me a chance to answer you. Don't hound me it makes me mad. When she doesn't hear from one of us within a period of time she calls the other one and it drives me crazy.

My mom called me a bit later and asked me whats was up so I told her and asked her if it stopped after the first few months. She said not all the time. My step dad's mom did it and mom said she just kept her mouth shut, didn't let it get between them. Well, my mom is weak in those terms. I am outspoken and will not deal with it. I am not mean about it but frankly I don't talk to my mom 4 and 5 times a week. I will not talk to her. Josh got mad at me turns around as we are walking into Petsmart and leaves to go home. I was like are you kidding me? I wasn't a bitch to him . I wasn't a bitch to him or anything but he had heard the conversation with my mom. He told me he doesn't understand the big deal. She doesn't know me that well she wants to get to know me . Well getting to know me doesn't mean being up my ass about everything going on . Calling every turn of the corner or when she doesn't hear from him . And then when he leaves for Iraq. . . . . . . . that will fall on me. Because he will only be able to call one of us and if she is not it she will call me for updates and answers. I will do an email update. I am not going to want to talk to them once a day or anything.

She will be the death of us. Because she is hurt when I don't talk to her everytime she calls. And she is god to Joshua for some reason . Every word that woman says is golden to him. So when she tells him one day it hurts her feelings hes going to flip on me. I am not going to compete for him thats it. He is 25 years old.

Ook enough ranting . . . .. . . . . for now anyways.













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I wouldn't pick a fight between a boy and his momma. The momma always win! You will have to adjust to his mother being around because that isn't going to change, and it shouldn't have to.

[xo heather|0 likes] [|reply]

I'm just saying, if you start a fight between a boy and his momma, the boy is always going to pick his momma. We're only given one mother! If I were you, I would embrace her presence :]

[xo heather|0 likes] [|reply]

Well, she is your mother-in-law so she somewhat belongs in your business.

[xo heather|0 likes] [|reply]

The above commenter is full of it. Guys don't ALWAYS side with their mother.
When it comes to mother vs wife it's not a surprise that the guy will often side with the wife (My ex-husband was SUCH a momma's boy, but he often sided with me because he knew I was right).
It's cool that he is close to his mom, but Josh is an adult and it's time he grows up a little and his mom needs to respect that he's a married man now and not her precious little boy and she needs to give you guys your space and let you be married.

[sundaysex|0 likes] [|reply]

I agree. There is a line between involved and too involved. I hope Josh agrees with youi.

[xo heather|0 likes] [|reply]

that's great you had a good day

[lady burtStar|0 likes] [|reply]

I guess she is just over excited about having a new member of the family, and perhaps it is because she doesn't know you that well. Perhaps you could schedual meetings with her and that may make her feel a little more involved and back of when your not meeting with her. It seems like anticipation, but I can appreciate why that would be annoying x

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