So I know all my friends wanted to make me feel better and the few I have talked to in the middle of the night, were amazed when they started bashing Mike that I stuck up for him. Then they got all mad at me. Difference between Jennifer and them...we didn't talk about him. We talked a little bit about it then we started talking about our lives and how we ended up where we are today. I love the girls who were like he's an asshole you need to find someone else. I was hurt, because you don't say that to someone unless you mean it, or you clarify what you mean by it but damn he didn't hit me. He didn't get in my face and call me a whore. So a few people are mad because I didn't want to get involved in an all night bash fest, get over it. Cuz if you reread the post I made, you'll remember I SAID IT BACK and I'm not going to sit here and call him a hundred different names to entertain YOU. I'm not that kind of person, you call me up and call your boyfriends everything under the sun, and then the next day you're back with the bastard who you claim is fucking someone else. Are you dumb? Then I tell you I'm going to work through it, and what was it you said....that if I get hurt I deserve it. Explain to me how all of a sudden we went from 'best bosom buddies' to you being pissed at me because i'm not taking your advice. You never take mine, You were working 2 fucking jobs to support his ass, you didn't have any kids, he did and you were keeping his ass and those kids in your apartment, risking being evicted because of them. And you asked me what I would do, and I said I'd tell them they needed to leave. Then you went off on me about how you loved him and those kids. You love them so you're bitching to me that you're tired of supporting them, he told you flat out he's not getting a job....did I say if you got hurt you deserved it even though it was true???? Hell no I said well hun if you need me call me. Damn I was don't get you, and you wonder why I just don't call you anymore. |