I have a best friend that's 14, almost 15. She's dating a 18 year old. She lost her virginity to him and he left her soon after. She's head over heels in love with him so she continues to fuck him even though he isn't dating her. He's just sticking around to get in her pants.
Now, I told her she needs to stop because she looks desperate always putting shit on facebook like ; Oh, why don't you love me ?" and all that. I'm like; !?
Okay, so. I yell at her sometimes that she needs to stop because she never really understands to stop. She's had a scare 2x thinking she could have been pregnant. I said she needs to stop. Now, her friend Codii posted on facebook that I'm a horrible bestfriend AND I should support her decisions. We argued and it slipped out that they fucked. SO, now evveryone on facebook knows. I feel horrible and she even commented and was like "Thanks alot." I feel so bad. I tried texting her, messaging her. She called me and started yelling and she was breathing all heavy. Then her mom called and started bashing me so i got pissed and was like "You should look at what your daughters doing with other men!" Then I hung up. Me and her are best friends and her mom just dissed me and so did she. I don't know what to do. She now hates me. I've cried my eyes out tonight. I don't know what to do and I'm afraid this could really be the end of our "Going on 10 year" bestfriend ship. Please help me. |
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At the end of the day, if she wants to go round having sex with someone who doesn't care about her emotionally, then there's nothing you can do. All you can do is wait for things to go wrong and be there to pick up the pieces when she's ready. Give her the space she clearly needs. From what you have put it looks as though you have tried all you can and there is only so much you can do. She will learn the hard way that she will get hurt or worse, pregnant at a young age. Yes there are options but I don't believe in them. If you're responsible enough to have sex, you're responsible to deal with the consequences. *hugs* I hope she sees sense soon! x
