Friendship Flowers And Friendly Friend-Filled Thoughts

12/25/2012

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26th December 2012, 7.59 AM.

Hello people!

So, remember what I said in my previous entry? About me reading back my Dream Journal last night? Well, there was this comment at "Hamster Memories And Bit Of Negativity" that made me think a bit. Here's the comment:
"People do read people's entries, but generally they've built up friendships with the people they read. People don't automatically start reading you right away.

What happens is this: people join Bloop, they start writing entries, and also they start reading other people's entries. They find people they click with and comment their entries and then those people comment them back, and they get to know each other a bit, and develop a friendship. It takes time. Bloop's been around since you were two years old, and some people have been on Bloop that long!

But if you find everyone's entries boring because they're all adults, it's going to be hard for you to find anyone you click with. In which case kidzworld is a better option really. It takes a while on any site to get to know people. It's normal to be ignored when you first enter a chat room. You have to stick it out and read what people are writing and get a sense of who they are, what they're interested in, and then you can join in some more.

And yes, it could indeed be that what frog said is true, because frog doesn't go round telling fibs, yo!

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The comment was by frog. I was just thinking, if I did find someone I click with, like maybe here, om Bloop or maybe on KidzWorld, how long would it take for the Friendship Flower to bloom? And would it last long? Would it wilt quickly? OK, that last question probably depends on how we click together and the type of Friendship Flower we have, lol. Take T.G for instance. We have a gigantic history of make-ups and break-ups. I'm not kidding, we keep make-up-ing and break-up-ing. LOL, I don't know if it's natural or not, but I'm quite used to it now. Fortunatelys, our Friendship Flower is still strong and going!

Have a nice, friend-filled day, everyone. ^u^

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"Friendship Flower," that's cute, never heard that before. =)

There's no one answer. Sometimes people just instantly hit it off and have that bond from nearly the first moment, and other times people take a while before feeling it, and sometimes it's just never that right fit. And, accordingly, sometimes it goes on and on, other times it lasts a couple yrs and fizzles out, other times it simply dies out quickly. It just depends on the personalities of the people in question, and sometimes outside events can push people together or pull them apart when it otherwise may not have happened. In other words, life is full of the unexpected, just go with the flow.

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Heh, I just thought of the word. The thing is, I may be friendly and fun, but I'm also annoying and have a lot of pride. Those are the things that often spoil things between me and a BF or friend. When I say the wrong thing or make the wrong choice, I just have too much pride and I can't go back. How can you swallow up your pride?

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It's difficult, and just something you have to work at if you want to make that change. I think most young people tend to be that way, though, so as long as you're aware and paying attention, I wouldn't worry overmuch about it.

[Atropos|0 likes] [|reply]

Haha - gosh, I was just thinking I recognise that comment you quoted, yo!

And yes, as Atropos says, it's different with each person. Same as in real life - think of all your friends and how your friendships developed, and you'll probably find it's a bit different for each one. And if there is something all your closest friends have in common, then this might be something to look for in future friends. Similarly, if there's something the people you really don't get on with all have in common, that might be something to avoid when looking for future friends!

Read different people's diaries and see if there is anything you relate to - it could be the person's interests, their sense of humour, their values, their attitude, all kinds of things. Get a sense of whether they could be someone you'd enjoy talking to, and if so, comment them. Comment various diaries, and you'll find a few people will reply. You'll soon find yourself interacting with various people, and potential friendships will develop from there.

[frog

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Haha, I honestly hope there are people out there that have something in common with me. I always like true and great friends. And thanks for the advice, yo!

P.S. LOL, I sometimes feel as if I want to say "Yo!" now. Am I catching the Yo Fever from you? :3

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Yep, the yo fever is incredibly contagious, yo!

[frog

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