There is a thought to every action. Whether the individual knows consciously of the thought is up for debate.
We all make mistakes. Some are more grave than others and we must think of why we do and say things to hurt ourselves, others. Mistakes are interesting. There are so many different types of them. Some people hurt others by saying or not saying what they want to say to another. Yours truly has been included in this. One can only assume that lessons have been learned, but ultimately, the lessons are only learned briefly. Another mistake? Or is it deliberate? A little bit of both, actually.
Self-destructive nature. Or maybe just trust issues. How can one get hurt by others if they go out of their way to make those around them resent and hate them?
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