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by AMH

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absolutely devastated.

12/31/2014

a dating site. a mother fucking dating site. he has an account on okcupid.com . are you fucking KIDDING ME???? he has accused me of cheating on him because i have an account on a kink website because of who i am, and he has an account on a fucking dating site!!!!! i have no accounts anywhere but facebook and fet, and he's got a fucking dating site. his profile even says he's "looking for women 18-32, single, who are looking for men". it's all starting to make sense. the way he's been acting towards me, the indifference to what i do, the whole shebang. it hurts, but it's making more and more sense. he left his phone on the bed and it went off under my head, so i looked. it was an email notification from the site, there are 3 new matches for him. so i looked. and my heart shattered completely. what am i supposed to do now? if i confront him it'll probably be the end of our relationship. it's on the rocks as it is.and now this?? how am i supposed to deal with this??

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Well at least now u kno where his distance is coming from.... sorry. I've been in ur shoes, I kno the feeling. I confronted my x husband & demanded his password so I could see just what exactly was happening.

[twistedlady|0 likes] [|reply]

is it a recent account? I know a few years into my relationship with my now husband, i realized I still had my old okcupid account when it messaged me suddenly.

Just playing devil's advocate. Just in case, explore all options first.

When there is no other logical conclusion, then ending the relationship is not a bad thing. It's not fair forcing something that predominately causes you negativity. If he is looking elsewhere, there is a huge red flag waving violently in the wind. On the same flag pole, the other red flags are joining it.

You are obviously unhappy in the relationship. It's time to do something good for you. Get out of it.

[ ✌-mel-☮Star|0 likes] [|reply]

I'm not sure why you are worried about if you confront him your relationship might end. Your relationship SHOULD end. He may not be cheating on you yet, but he obviously plans to! You should end it before he has the chance. He may be looking for someone else and when he finds that person, may leave you. Don't give him that chance. You don't deserve that!

[*Pixie*|0 likes] [|reply]

he used the same password as he does for everything else? Well, it seems like he either wants to be caught or is terrible at being sneaky. lol Either way, Id confront him. Why drag it out longer than necessary.

[twistedlady|0 likes] [|reply]

I am so sorry. I think you need to confront him or it will eat away at you.

~ Big hugs ~

[just delStar|0 likes] [|reply]

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