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Advice: To You; From You
by Bloop Advice

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[1] My Step Dad Hates Me! Why?

03/30/2009

Dear Bloopers,

I am young adult, and I am moved out of my parents house, but I am having some drama with my step dad. Him and my mother have been married for about seven years now, and ever since the day they married, he has been a complete jerk to me.

My mom and I are really close, but he gets really controlling and bitchy when my mom wants to spend time with me or if I go over to their house. My mom says I haven't done anything wrong, and he's just jealous - but what can I do to make him treat me better, and make it bearable enough to visit my mom?

- Hated by the Step Daddy



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Maybe just arrange to visit your mum when he's not around... or have your mum arrange to visit you alone. It appears your mum is aware of it, so she shouldn't have a problem with it.

[Lady Blue BellaStar|0 likes] [|reply]


CLEARLY HE RESENTS YOU BECAUSE HE WANTS YOUR MOM TO HIMSELF. HE DOESN'T WANT TO SHARE HER WITH YOU. IT'S UP TO YOUR MOM TO SPEAK TO HIM FIRMLY ABOUT THIS, AND NOT LET HIM TREAT YOU LIKE THIS. SHE SHOULD NOT TOLERATE HIM TREATING HER DAUGHTER LIKE SHIT, YO. SHE NEEDS TO HAVE STRONG WORDS WITH HIM ABOUT THIS. AND MAYBE YOU NEED TO HAVE STRONG WORDS WITH HER ABOUT THE FACT THAT SHE SHOULD BE HAVING STRONG WORDS WITH HIM.
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[LADY PUCKStar|0 likes] [|reply]


Your her daughter, he's just her husband.

If he can't accept the fact that she's going to spend time with you, then she needs to put him in his place.

Obviously you came before him, if talking to him doesn't help, you could both just ignore it.


[Just_live|0 likes] [|reply]

Sounds like he's being rather childish. It's his problem if he chooses to act this way towards you. Ignore it, let him have his silly tantrums and don't let it affect the relationship you and your mum have. =].

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[Lady Harley QuinnStar|0 likes] [|reply]

The real problem with this is that your MOTHER isn't taking care of the situation.

Honestly? Schedule time away from him with your mother and if your mother can't amend to get away from him and his childish ways to spend time with her daughter, then it's an issue that needs to be brought up with her.

And if she can? Great. Problem (pretty much) solved. Unfortunately some people never mature, and it might just have to be that you have to avoid your stepdad altogether instead of hoping he changes.

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