His loss or mine?

Jealous much?!

Acid Fairy

I guess some women can't handle it when another is comfortable in her own skin

Transit

what horrible things you're saying about this woman! I bet she's not even as bad as you say she is. I think the reason he left you might be because you're a jealous bitch who refuses to see the beauty in others? Maybe you were too uptight?

Even so, get over it. He left you for a woman who is apparently now having his children. Time to moooove on.

panda bear.

Maybe he couldn't stand the way you look down your nose at other people and that is why he left you.

He probably stays with her because she's loveable. By your post you don't even sound likeable.

.Blue Bella.

ALL those comments.. I agree.

Everyone else took the words right out of my mouth.

Endless Love

When you love someone and they choose someone else it is very hard to deal with. All you can do is continue on your path and you will find someone on your same level. I know the feeling of not feeling good enough. I feel it every day. Just keep working on yourself until you are happy with who you are. Then you will find someone who will think you are more than good enough.

I think you probably feel that way because he made the decision to end the relationship and not you. Don't take it personally, everyone feels like that when they lose control of a situation. That's why most people are bitter over a breakup, even when they don't miss the person they were with.

i don't think the op is being jealous or hateful, she's just frustrated that the man she loves chose to be with another woman. she's just trying to make sense of it all and she doesn't understand. you're heartbroken, it's okay. go ahead and be angry and upset and jealous all you want, it's okay, just don't act on bad feelings. eventually you will put things into perspective and realize there's someone else out there for you who will make you even happier than your ex did. just give yourself time to heal. good luck

Miss

It's not always about who's better by society's standards. It's about who you click with and who you don't, who you are well suited to, etc. It just didn't work out, it's okay.

June Bride

Personally, I think you do sound like the better person. If she is dirty, doesn't bathe, pops out babies all the time, has no job, etc - well, that's really disgusting.

I've met a woman like that, and she's a piece of work, that's for sure. My fiance dated her before he met me, and I'm more like you. Maria (the girl he dated before me) had no job, popped out babies, didn't want a job, just wanted to sit around the house smoking pot and watching soap operas all day. Ugh.

you know what i find funny.. is that your basing your opinion just what this girl says.. She is angry and of course she has every right to be.. but she's degrading a human being who her ex has fell in love with..

I'm just curious : which one of the commenters is the actually secret holder

Why do thin women think that men
are crazy for being with "bigger" women?
Just because you don't weight 80-100 pounds
doesn't men you are unattractive.

A.Classic.Disaster

You sound like a jerk. I'm glad your ex seems happy.

I'm not really sure why everyone is so harsh on this diary.

I'm pretty sure at least a couple people commenting have felt that way before.