I am secretly in love with you! I cant stop comparing everything to you. I even imagine its you I am kissing and what not when I am with my husband. I just cant get you out of my mind. You are on my mind when I get up and on my mind when I go to bed. I wish each and every single night that you could be mine. I can only hope for the day that you are mine. I know you like me. I know you do, I am just too afraid to act upon it. I love thinking about you all the time. I love having you there when I need you. The best thing I love is when I get a message from you when I am not expecting it. You always let me know what you are doing and where you are. You make it hard to not want to be with you! I really am falling in love with you. I remember our first kiss.....and I want another like that. You made me melt....my husband dont even do that to me. Actually he never has! I Love you and I want to tell you how much you really mean to me but I am afraid to.
Well, if you've already kissed him, I don't think he'll be completely surprised, so what's the problem? But yeah, I do agree with the other commenters, you should tell your husband.
I realize that I'm assuming that the writer is not polyamorous (is that the right term?), which is wrong of me. If the writer is polyamorous, then you should totally go for this other person! Life is short, and from what you have written it seems as though he/she has feelings for you. However, if your husband believes that the two of you are in a monogamous relationship then you definitely need to talk to him and be honest. Cheating is a terrible thing.
It doesn't matter. Even if they were polyamorous, it isn't right to be in love with someone else without telling your partner your feelings. It's not right and it's not fair.
Every time I read an entry on BloopSecrets about cheating, then read the comments on the entries, I learn how much Bloopers are really against cheating. It just surprises me because so many people cheat on their spouses now. Disclaimer: I'm not saying cheating is okay. I'm only surprised by the immense response to cheating entries.
Haha I'm totally against cheating NOW. I used to cheat on past boyfriends. But ever since I found & fell in love with my current boyfriend I can't even imagine ever cheating on him. I'm quite the hypocrite.
I was never the cheating or lying type. Some people are faithful, some people aren't. But I don't think it makes you a hypocrite to change your views. It's part of growing up and maturing.
i hope you do whats right, maybe try a week away from both of these guys to sober up your head from love. just away from society? youl definitely know who you want the most.
but leave your husband on good terms.
when you get back, have a heart to heart chat to your hubby, be honest, and ask if he feels love or just plain "need" towards you.
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how about you tell your husband that you're in love with someone else? that's not fair to him AT ALL.
Let's not all assume that this is A: cheating or B: a man. You never know. 
This isn't fair to your husband. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman or if you don't think you're cheating, it would still hurt him.
The only way being poly works, is if you are completely and totally honest with one another. 
not fair to ur husband, not fair at all!