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by onewhogotaway

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my two year long online friendship

08/13/2010

i was hesitant about saying this on here because i guess i made it an
unwritten rule to only dedicate this space to the old love...

but my life, my present, seems to be taking over and i can't hide it.
i've had a friend, an online friend, for two years.
so this friendship existed before he broke up with me.
we live greatly apart from each other,
and never planned on meeting.

i can't say i didn't want to, but i didn't mention it because
i felt i'd be risking too much.
aside from an age gap (he's the older one), and
distance, i just felt like the odds were against our friendship,
but even more so if we met.

but i enjoy our IM conversations so much...
our friendship was so clean, fun, supportive, and compatible.
i don't know - all i know is that i know him better than
even some friends in real life.
does that make sense?
i was afraid of losing that if we met and things went weird.

so, the real story begins here!
to make a long story short, he came to my state for vacations with a friend.
later i kind of signed myself up to tag along with them somewhere,
but in the end i couldn't make it.

so he's been in my time zone for a few days now
and has been updating me all through the trip via e-mails.
last night he sent me an e-mail...
and i dared to
ask if he wanted to talk on the phone.
this would be the first time ever.

he said yes....
and it was so GREAT!!
we talked for almost TWO hours, and neither of us wanted
to hang up!
but it was about 1 AM and we had to.
our conversation was just like or even better
than i had ever hoped for it to be.
we were laughing, i was doing a lot of the talking...
and i think we even...god forbid.
flirted.

sigh.
i have not been able to get this out of my head.
i hope he feels the same.
i know we're just great friends and all we can ever be.
haha-but hey! did i mention he's
devilishly HANDSOME??!
he is.
be jealous!!!!
^_^






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OH YES!! i defintely believe in online friendships. honey, i have a whooooole seperate LIFE online! don't be ashamed about it... at least you made a friend that will understand you and like you and be there for you when you need him the most. i have a best friend that lives all th way in canada, while i live in washington. we are insanely close, even though we're insanely far away. one night, we talked on the phone for about 7 hours!! and he was intenseley handsome! he has even (accidentally) watched me sleep.. lol. (that totally isn't creepy at all) but hey! don't give up on the friendship. KEEP IT GOING! there's nothing wrong with having friends online. (:

[xX-Carina-Xx|0 likes] [|reply]

thanks! hahaha, sounds like what you've got is incredibly special i see the same thing happening with me down the road!

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

take advantage of it, girl. don't let anything happen to it!

[xX-Carina-Xx|0 likes] [|reply]

i will take your advice

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

-random noter-
i agree with carina, there's nothing wrong with having online friendships!! he sounds nice and awesome! i have online friends that i've talked to for years and we're so close but distance wise, so far away so don't be ashamed. that's so cool that you two talked for 2 hours! just out of curiosity, how old is he?

[lacy lou lou|0 likes] [|reply]

he's 26, and i turn 19 in sept. haha thanks! i appreciate all you sweet girls cheering me on. what i like most about him is how in all this time, he's never made me feel uncomfortable or been suggestive. guess thats why the age gap never bothered me. hes hot, lol

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

haha that's awesome! another september birthday - i'll be 22 sept 2nd age difference doesn't matter to me either. haha how hot is hot?

[lacy lou lou|0 likes] [|reply]

its weird, i see sooo many sept. people on here! haha...hot...hmmm...lets see. i dunno how to describe him other than by saying that after i saw pics, it was INCREDIBLY hard to see him as just a friend...he's the rugged, killer smile, intense eyes kind of guy..yum!

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

haha sound dangerously yummy lol haha those are the worst best kind.. you know, the kind that can make you melt just by looking at their eyes? so do you think y'all will meet?

[lacy lou lou|0 likes] [|reply]

i know!!! i guess i shouldn't meet him if i don't want to melt or rip his clothes off. yeah..we might..on the phone he invited me to tag along in a few days somewhere else. i might go for it. if we talk again, and hes irresistable, i will try my best.

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

haha cool! if it feels right then go for it!

[lacy lou lou|0 likes] [|reply]

it feels like a rush...like a roller coaster type of thing, haha. thanks.

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

I've had online friendships since I was 14. My ex-fiance I met online when I was 18 and then met irl when I was 19 and my two best friends I've met online when I was 16 and I met them irl when I was 22. There isn't anything wrong with online friendships.

[sej|0 likes] [|reply]

aww, i like your stories. ty and thanks for sharing.

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

i know this type of situation well...

[heatherdawn.xoxo|0 likes] [|reply]

haha really?

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

oh yes ...ive been in an online relationship for nearly 2 years now ...slightly different and definitely more serious circumstances, but i know how it feels. for sure. and all i can say is, online relationships require more than your average amount of trust

[heatherdawn.xoxo|0 likes] [|reply]

oh i'll definitely take your word on that. cheers to your relationship!

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

wow...i really feel like you're describing my life haha. my guy is turning 26 and i recently turned 19....i have high hopes for you!!!!!

[take me there|0 likes] [|reply]

awww how sweet! i'm rooting for you. haha as for me, i think he's not in the cards for me yet. cant say whether he'll be or not, though, because crazier things have happened!

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

i hope so! he seems like a genuinely good guy! if you ever need any advice or someone to talk to about it im here!

[take me there|0 likes] [|reply]

you are too nice...thanks so much! i'm adding you as a friend!

[onewhogotaway|0 likes] [|reply]

im adding you too! =)

[take me there|0 likes] [|reply]

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