I need to sort out my money and the only way i can think is that i should do a few spreadsheet but i have no idea where to start! anyone has ideas or have templates i can use... or something!
Sarah if you read this, please dont mention it to anyone - i prefer not to tell anyone but i want to put down as it may make me realise my husband is right!!!
is it stupid that i want a baby (but i know my husband not ready yet!) but as my husband keeps telling me wheni didnt want him to put protection on - that he should get a better job so we have better money coming in and as we both want me to be a full time mum (as he wont want to be stuck with a child! and we both didnt want a nanny or someone to look after our child) that is going to be difficult while he works in co-op... i did think maybe i can be a mum and work from home (but means looking for a job i can do that (but havent told him about this idea) and he also wanting me to go to college or something and get qualified in something so i can do what i want (a job).
i know he is right... but i have really bad PMT and been told so many times when i have a baby it gets better and i want to be a mum and look after my own child instead of someone elses all the time!!! ok i know i am being silly ... i guess i am being impatient!!!
aaarrrrggggh i want to read not being stuck at work i am reading such a good book at the moment!!! maybe i should join (or maybe I should make a) book club (on here) but not sure.... but i want to talk about books as well as reading them! or well maybe i just keep telling you what i think and what the book is about on here!
i am not sure whats going on in my kitten's head at the moment - while we were away Misty was hissing, spitting, scraching and biting hard at my sisters... and when we got back she scratched and biting us (it actually hurts) and then sometime she is nice and let us stroke her and curl up to us when we are in bed! My husband got angry with her and hit her last night but then she went and curled up to him and followed him in the morning like she was saying she forgives him and let him pick her up. but when i picked her up she hurt me! but sometime she let me stroke her but then some reason while stroking she gets her claw out and bites!
dont know if its me, or she's hurt... dont think she is pregnant (i hope not)... any ideas?
ok i possible should get back to work - and maybe should change my entry background as the wedding is out of the way lol!
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I wont say anything hun, don't worry 
And to be honest, there is never a right time to have a child, it wont stop you from doing anything you want, I am starting my management training
end of the month. As long as you know what you want and you plan carefully things will work out right. I had been with whitbread for 6years before I had Oscar and they let me take the whole time I was entitled to take and allowed me to go back on my
terms. Even found alternative jobs to give me suitable hours. I transferred a few months later as we moved and they were fine with it, Ipswich have been real good with the hours that I can do to keep costs of child care down. I told them what I aim to
do and they are helping me with it by getting me my training. I did think about working from home but that isn't for me, I need to get out more lol! 