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by James J. Gill

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Should I give her a second chance or cut bait?

08/07/2013

Right now as I write this on my iPhone stuck in rush hour traffic on 494 and 61 headed home I been thinking non stop bout my ex after what she told me witch is she don't want kids (this isn't the one that has a child) so we were talking bout trying again but she has all these fucking conditions that one I will not agree to at all and two she don't believe in meeting in the middle with me on some things ya I may have a hot head but I do want kids cause I'm an only child and yet she don't want kids period then she wants me to move in with her (this is the nicest thing I can find to say bout her sister) overbearing, scary cat bout leaving her at home alone sister witch is a big HELL NO then she adds that she wants me to dump all and yes I did say all my friends and right now I don't know what to do with this situation I gave this woman 5 years and yes I said 5 years of my life I was always second fiddle to her family and I always put her first along side my mom and that should mean something but appearently it don't means shit to her so I'm in this debate bout trying it again so I'm looking for advice on this cause I still love her but she won't meet me in the middle with the conditions at all so plz help me with advice on this

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absolutely not. if she's not willing to compromise then no.

[The Avon Lady|0 likes] [|reply]

I'm just a random person but I say no. She wants you to do all this stuff but what has she agreed to do? She won't meet you in the middle and try to compromise and that's not fair. If she cared, she'd meet you half way, find a way to make things worse. Also, the kids thing.. That's a big deal. You shouldn't be with someone who doesn't want kids when you do. That will only cause problems down the road. That's never good.

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