but doesnt have the balls to post a name
first off let me say, thank you for taking an interest in my diary and my life.
im sure as you know, a lot of people are down on their luck right now. a lot of people cant pay bills, especially medical bills. but that doesnt mean the joy of having children should be ripped from them. i would not rely on the state or anyone else. i would make it with my wife like we always do. we always get through. but even if i did have to rely on the state for some thing, whats wrong with that?? thats what the programs were created for. and if the state says we qualify for the programs, then obviously they have no problem with it. i have been on food stamps twice, and i am not ashamed of that! i was out of a job and had to eat.
if you have never needed help with anything in your life, i applaud you! but if you have needed help, like all humans do at some point, would you have wanted someone to wish you well? or wish you harm and bad luck like you have done to me?
as far as my wife goes, i have not forced her into doing anything! she wants a child as much as i do. so im not really sure what you are talking about.
i cant help the way you feel, but i will not apologize for anything. we will continue trying to have a child of our own and if GOD wants to bless us with a child, thats up to him.
i really hope you are never put in a bad position as we are in. im afraid you would not be strong enough, as it seems you think life is all sunshine and no rain.
once again, i thank you for taking interest in my diary. have a great day honey!
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I totally understand where you're coming from. My husband and I had to move in with my family due to medical bills and credit card debt. It sucks but like you said, everyone is down on their luck once in their lives. We have a 7 month old son and even though we knew we couldn't afford a baby at the time, we wouldn't change our decision. We weren't on state assistance or any type f govt programs. I have always been careful when it came to birth control too. He was our little surprise.
Oh wow.. After reading the entry of course I had to be nosy and go read the comment.. That's not fair and it's wrong. Im sorry that someone would leave a comment like that to you. I hope things start to look up for you soon hun. 
I had to go read
the comment... Personally, as a parent who has come across hard times after having a child (and loosing my job right before my daughter was born) I can't help but sort of wonder the same thing. Why are you and Melissa trying to have a child right now
instead of waiting til you are more financially stable, or have money put away for unexpected expenses? Obviously, its none of my business, but I know that if we wouldnt have had savings when I lost my job when my daughter was born we would have been
in big trouble. I had a perfectly normal pregnancy and the baby was 100% healthy litterally til the minute she was born when the DR inflicted injuries and now we are looking at medical bills potentially til she is 18. I have had to get on food and medical
assistance, and there is no shame in it if you need it, but the programs like you said are for people who have come across hard times, I wouldnt really consider intentionally getting pregnany when you werent completely financially ready isnt really what
'falling on hard times' is. I mean, its your business as to why your deciding to have a child now, but aren't you worried about the 'what if's'? I know personally right now I am scared for anything else to come our way, I don't want my kids to have
to suffer the consequences of my hard times. As it is now, I am relying on medical insurance that doesn't always cover the best doctors like my insurance from work did, I have had to put a hold on putting money away for my kids savings, and to save money
I have been staying home and not taking my son out to go do a bunch of stuff (like the aquarium, zoo, putting him in a playgroup or preschool, because all of that stuff costs money that we dont have). Its hard being a parent, and its harder when your
struggling financially. I am not trying to be rude at all with this so I hope you dont take it that way.
Lmfao, I love anonymous commenters. 