RYC; if I were you I'd buy them now and save them for when you do get preggo.. Also, if donor drinks a lot he could have a low sperm count and that could be part of the prob with you getting preggo.. Just a thought. <3
I agree with not drinking with children around, or at least having a sober person available. However, if you are planning on getting drunk or drinking, I don't think it's right to have the kids around it anyways. But that's just me.
dont be so hard om yourself babe. trust your body...it has spent millions of years going thru evolutionary changes to bring you to today. it knows what its doing. its just not time yet xxxx