You'll always be my hero, even though you've lost your mind. | 01/08/2011 |
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Alrighty...finally a real entry.
So- as far as inseminations go....since I was late ovulating last month, I decided to take this month to let everything straighten itself out. After my next cycle we will start up again!
Me and my donor got into last week. He was drunk and started telling me that he didn't agree with his wife getting fixed after their 2nd child. He wanted more children to carry on his name and beliefs. And that now all he had left was me getting pregnant. I went completely off!!!! If and When I get pregnant it will be MINE and MELISSA'S child! he/she will have MELISSA'S last name!! He wants the child to know from day 1 that he is the father! but he's NOT!!! He will never be father or daddy!! He will be DONOR!!!!! Forever! He will not have rights!! If he wanted more kids, he should have told his wife that before she got her tubes tied! That's not MY problem!!
Then his wife tried telling me that he wasn't going to take our child. He just didn't feel right building a bond with our child and that child not knowing he's the "father". Again, not my problem! He should have thought of that before he agreed to donating! We had our agreements before we started! He can't renig now! Sorry bout it! So, I finally told him that IF the child asked about a "father" andd IF the child were old enough to understand at that time, we would all 4 sit down and explain the whole process of how we created our precious child! And that Tommy is the DONOR!!! He agreed. For now.
UGH!! Why does having a baby have to be sooo damn difficult???
Okay....honestly I'm very tired right now. But I don't have much to do tomorrow. So I will update more then. Until then, what do you guys think of this situation?
Goodnight Bloop!!
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Oy! I think he had better talk to his wife about that one. She's the one who signed up to have his babies and perpetuate his name. You just want a baby to share with your love, which is NOT HIM.
I think that you need to be really careful with this if that is how he is acting.. If he gets wild hair up his butt one day and decides to demand a DNA test and visitation there isnt ANYTHING you can do about it unless he signs adoption papers when the baby is first born. I hope things work out and he stops thinking like that, or talks to his wife about trying to have more kids or something.
I'm sorry that it's so frustrating for you. But I wish you luck and my fingers are crossed for yall. BABY DUST YOUR WAY! <3
I agree on the point that if and when ya'll get preggo that if the kid asks who's daddy to let 'em know. But as far as SPREM DONER being in the picture as DADDY... FUUUCCCCKKKKKK NOOOO.That's Sperm Doner. NOT Daddy. Mel is Daddy and you are Mommy. point blank period. If dude's not cool with that then sorry momma, u need to find a new sperm doner. (Where u located? lol sure Dan won't mind sharing lol)