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Sarah's Life - Living With (And Beyond) Fibro
by SarahBear9708

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What Do You Do?

08/28/2013

What Do You Do?


What do you do when the one you care about and want to be (stay) with is going through so much and there is nothing in this world you can do about it? What do you do when it all starts to affect your relationship too? What do you do when you start to fight more? What do you do when everything you do to try to help seems to just make it worse?

I'm so frustrated. He means so much to me and I think I seriously might even love him. And none of this is his fault. I KNOW he cares about me too. Him and I are doing good internally. It's all the external stuff that is affecting us. I don't know what to do. I know I am not about to leave him just because he is going through a hard time. And I do want to be with him. But it is also starting to affect me. Blah. I feel so lost on all of this.

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honey i went through this same exact thing with my husband. he actually told me at one point he was leaving me and giving up on us. this might not work for you but it worked for us. just sit down and talk to him. go somewhere where it is just the two of you and no one else. somewhere neutral that has no emotional lbearing on either of you. sit and talk for as long as it takes. take everything he says with a grain of salt, and communicate to each other how you feel and why. dont get hostile, dont get defensive. just explaining. try and figure out what is going on with him and see if there is anything you can do about it. tell him you are feeling the effects of what is going on and try to get to a middle ground. make sure he knows YOU WONT GIVE UP ON HIM NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE TRIES TO PUSH YOU AWAY. sometimes that is all a guy really needs is to be reassured of that. to know that he still has someone there on his side. my husband and i have been through some very trying experiences (my family trying to pull us apart, my inadvertently accusations of him cheating twice, his family drama, the stress of him not being able to keep jobs steadily, ,etc...) and we have gotten through all of it by just talking it through. try it. it might work for you as it has for me. and dont forget about the power of prayer. i will keep you in mine, and you need to keep yourselves in yours. or at least keep positive thoughts.

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[NerdyGirl85Star|0 likes] [|reply]

I tried imitrex when i was a teenager and it made the top of my head feel like it was always on fire!

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i see so much of me in you its ridiculous. there are going to be times where you will feel like youre talking in circles, and you just might be. if it is truly meant to be it will find a way to work itself out.

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Yeah it was awful when i took imitrex. I wanted to pull my hair out. Yeah i hope when this sinus infection goes away that hopefully this migraine does too cause idk what else to do but keep taking this med till im out of pills and i have 6 left.

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