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Getting sicker.
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sorry that last comment from me was posted on the wrong thing. it was meant as a reply to another one i had written. anyhow, i hope you feel much better soon. its not fun being sick, in any sense of the word.
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Getting sicker.
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i know. believe me, i have been there. the best thing you could do for either of you is just make sure he knows you are there no matter what. once yall get through whatever ails him, it will be so much better.
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Dear Mike
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if he is not willing to talk to you, hun the best thing you can do for him is make sure he knows you are there for him no matter what. anyone can appreciate something like that. especially a guy. especially one who is going through something difficult.
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Dear Mike
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is everything ok, dear? you have me worried....:/
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[AMH]
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What Do You Do?
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 Yeah it was awful when i took imitrex. I wanted to pull my hair out. Yeah i hope when this sinus infection goes away that hopefully this migraine does too cause idk what else to do but keep taking this med till im out of pills and i have 6 left.
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What Do You Do?
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i see so much of me in you its ridiculous. there are going to be times where you will feel like youre talking in circles, and you just might be. if it is truly meant to be it will find a way to work itself out.
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I tried imitrex when i was a teenager and it made the top of my head feel like it was always on fire!
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[NerdyGirl85]
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honey i went through this same exact thing with my husband. he actually told me at one point he was leaving me and giving up on us. this might not work for you but it worked for us. just sit down and talk to him. go somewhere where it is just the two of you and no one else. somewhere neutral that has no emotional lbearing on either of you. sit and talk for as long as it takes. take everything he says with a grain of salt, and communicate to each other how you feel and why. dont get hostile, dont get defensive. just explaining. try and figure out what is going on with him and see if there is anything you can do about it. tell him you are feeling the effects of what is going on and try to get to a middle ground. make sure he knows YOU WONT GIVE UP ON HIM NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE TRIES TO PUSH YOU AWAY. sometimes that is all a guy really needs is to be reassured of that. to know that he still has someone there on his side. my husband and i have been through some very trying experiences (my family trying to pull us apart, my inadvertently accusations of him cheating twice, his family drama, the stress of him not being able to keep jobs steadily, ,etc...) and we have gotten through all of it by just talking it through. try it. it might work for you as it has for me. and dont forget about the power of prayer. i will keep you in mine, and you need to keep yourselves in yours. or at least keep positive thoughts.
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Someone please save me.
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That is so sad...guys like that are not worth your time...they suck...just keep your head up and there will be another guy who will love you more and nevere leave you.
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[Sexygirl]
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Pretty much.
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I sometimes feel like this too (and I think I've written about it a few times here on Bloop.) But I also know that I do not belong to myself, but I belong to God and have no right to take my own life. It appears you have a similar point of view.
However, I am able to use this depressive feeling (of not caring if I live or die) as power. There's power in not fearing to die. I added this power to the desire to serve (or to build something to serve), and now I barely have time to be depressed. As a result, I feel this depressive feeling a lot less often.
Other focuses that help me is thinking of and talking to God often throughout the day (or at least as often as I can remember). He really does want to help you, if you let Him.
Another focus that helps is focusing on doing things to solve my problems in the immediate short term as well as long term. I sit down and write things down. (I also enter them in the computer to keep a record.)
Another focus (which actually is a habit) that helps a lot in getting the body and mind to release the natural endorphins (or natural high) is exercise and eating right. It also gets my mind to function better to solve my problems.
Reading 2 of your previous entries, I also want to say that it really is an illusion to think that you can't live without someone. Think about. When you came into this world, you did not have that person. You survived all those years without that person. It doesn't make sense to think, if you really think about it.
It makes more sense to think you can't live without God. He knows your mind like no one else can.
I am sorry if I am not comforting (as I don't know how to be comforting). I am more a solutions type of person. Hope this helps. (It will if you let it.) 
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[Awakened]
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Someone please save me.
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Life is inherently hard, painful and depressing. All we can do is survive and move forward, no matter what it takes. We have to continue to do so in order to find the good through the bad, and remember that without the bad - we would have no idea how wonderful the good is. Without suffering, there would be no compassion. Without despair, there would be no happiness. It is a balance, and one that often feels like the worst imbalance ever. I can sympathize, I am about to undergo a divorce and I feel as though I'm drowning. All I can do is remember "when there is darkness engulfing you, all you have to do is remember you can be the light." My best friend taught me that. I wish you the very best, and I certainly hope things get better soon!
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[One sky, one destiny]
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Little By Little.
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Taking too few calories can hurt you in trying to lose weight. You said this doesn't make sense to you in your first paragraph. If you see your body as a static container, then it won't make sense. But it should make sense if you understand that the body adjusts or evolves in response to environment and circumstances. When you starve yourself, the body response by SAVING/STORING MORE CALORIES. This becomes a habitual tendency and therefore leads to gaining more weight in the long term.
Another reason many fail in losing weight (and keeping it off) is because they are primarily focusing on overall weight. If you want to get slim, you really need to get the lesson at: http://spirfit.blogspot.com/2008/09/do-you-really-want-to-lose-weight.html
If you like that lesson, feel free to see also lessons at http://spirfit.org/Blogs/
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[Awakened]
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 Yay well I will defenitely add you to fb and my thing is once u see it you will know its me its Taylor Lauren lol
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[HabsSweetHeart31]
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Progress?
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Awww that's so sweet of you of course I don't mind I love meeting new people on bloop and all that stuff do you have facebook ????
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[HabsSweetHeart31]
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Ugh.
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 aww, girlie, exercise is always hard, no matter if you are in pain or whatever. Cheap food is bad for you, as you have stated. Have you tried those healthy choice things? Though honestly there is not enough food for me there in those things. Milk is supposed to help. Give you vitamin c and other stuff like that.
Yay for going to the gym; that's great!
As for the walking thing that's awesome too. I would walk for those causes too, though i know I would hurt way to much by the time that it was done.
Have a great weekend.
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[The Ladybug Girl]
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Little By Little.
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 RYC: I wish. I'm uninsured, so I can only do home treatment. I wear splints on both wrists and take anti-inflammatories. And pray daily that I will not need surgery.
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[polywog ]
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Trying.
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Ryc: I am glad that you are trying to lose all the weight that you want gone. Most people would just give up. As for Cerebral Palsy I have had the disability all my life. I understand pain! I wear a brace on my leg because my right foot is "crooked" and cannot be like a normal foot. It hurts in the brace because of all the pressure and when I take the brace off my foort goes to it's natural state and turns to the side. Obviously I hurt because ALL my weight goes to the side... uh.
If you ever want to complain to me as well you can!
I need to color my hair again; you can totally see the gray hairs again. Bah.
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[The Ladybug Girl]
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