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One day at a time.
by ♥Kajira

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02/06/2010

New name...
As you see, I changed my name. Kajira. Much more fitting...much more me. Kajira is the name for a female slave. This entry is basically to cover some aspects of life that have yet to be covered...

Mastery...

Several people have inquired as to the relationship between Master & I...is he truely my "master"? How is mastery established?

I was introduced to this lifestyle by starting in BDSM. I had always felt within myself the desire to submit, and in the beginning, BDSM satisfied this. However, the more power Master had, the more I wanted to give him. This is what led to the lifestyle we lead now. Although we don't strictly adhere, we are loosely based on gorean philosophies. Men are men & women are women. We are not equals. There are things that, in general, men excell at, and the same for women. I was not forced or pushed into this, it was purely by my consent which I became what I am. I am proud of what I am. I am not branded, although if we do go through with getting married, I will recieve a kef.

"Though I am slave, yet for the first time in my life, I am free."

Guess this is questions pt 1...Need to get off here. If you have questions feel free to ask. If youre shy, I do accept anonymous comments.





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whats a kef?

♥Lacy

[MonsoonStar|0 likes] [|reply]

lacy askd my ? already.

[FEiSTY♥MAMA|0 likes] [|reply]

I also want to know what a kef is. & that lifestyle sounds kind of fun, I'd love to experiment. But I wouldn't be able to actually "live" it.

[jes&peanut.Star|0 likes] [|reply]

To be honest, I'm of the school live and let live. If you're both happy then good for you, so many people are scared to do what makes them happiest so well done
I'm terminally nosy though, so I was wondering how this relates to your everyday life. In your household is master the boss and you second in command or in day-to-day life are you more equal in terms of running the house etc.
It's always been a way of life that interests me, I can see the appeal but I'm far too independent and stubborn to be subservient, and would feel too stressed by the responsibility of being the one 'in control'.

[amyStar|0 likes] [|reply]

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