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Evening walks will do wonders for your sleeping habits** is what I meant.
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[Aly]
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It's really hard to get out of depression on your own. Especially if you sit around your house all day, that will only make it worse because you're seeing the same scenes day in and day out, breathing the same air.
What I suggest is to take it slow. Going for a walk in the morning will help motivate you to be more active throughout the day.
You could also call up some old friends and family and see what everyone has been up to. Maybe make a plan to get together with some people.
But at first I would suggest taking a walk, maybe even two or three (Even walks will do wonders for your sleeping habits, making you get more of a good nights rest.). Just getting out of the house, making your legs move and your body work will help you immensely.
After awhile, once you're feeling more confident, I would suggest looking for a job, no matter what kind of a job it is. Going out right now wouldn't be very wise because you're going to be emanating a negative atmosphere. I know it sounds hard and corny, but going into your job interview, and eventually your new job, with a genuine smile every day will help to make your life more tolerant, and eventually, more happy and fulfilled. Just think of something that once made you really, truly happy. The sort of memory that made you throw your head back and laugh, or giggle to yourself.
We're the same age and this sort of thing has helped me a lot. I used to not even have the motivation to get dressed at all. I would just lounge around the house all day in my pj's. But, these small exercises really do help, and like I said, the first step to getting out of your depression could be as easy as taking a walk. 
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[Aly]
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Pisses, Sad :(
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 i am sorry to hear the class has been so hard for you, and i hope yuo will be allowed to take it one more time. i mean just try to study more, it might mean late nights and such but i am sure you can do it.
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[bratpunkyg02 ]
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Pisses, Sad :(
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Hey, hope I don't sound outta line here but what about evening work or weekend work, do one or the other and it will still leave you time for study.
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[Lady's Man Oscarino]
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 the best advice i could give you is talk directly to her about it nobody else, this is between you and her.
If she blows you off, then you're better off without her friendship. The saying there are plenty of fish in the sea is so true. You are capable of making a new best friend and of making better memories with somebody who wont treat you like crap.
welcome to bloop btw. 
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[..toxique..]
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 Welcome to Bloop & good luck with your friend!
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[Vanna ]
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It tough when friends grow apart or boyfriends interfer in friendships.
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[xo heather ]
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if she isn't faithful to him then why in the world is she even with him, more so why is she moving 3 hours AWAY?! That's crazy. I agree with everyone else, try talking to her? Atleast you're attempting to HELP her.
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[~The New Mrs.]
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your friend sounds like a very insecure person to be with someone so controlling... and why are they moving 3 hours away? She's just going to distance herself. I'm sorry your in the position you are in, caring about her & wanting the best for her but she's too stubborn to realize that. *hugs*
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[~The New Mrs.]
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i am sorry about the move because i know it is hard, but you both need to make an effort to see each other. as for her unfaithfulness, i would talk to her and if you are her best friend, than she will hopefully take what you say to heart.
welcome to bloop
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[bratpunkyg02]
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welcome to bloop.
well what i can say is that talk to her. i mean you can be best friends and her living far away. my best friend lives about 45 min away. she has new friends yes, but im her BEST FRIEND. and once in a while when i have enough gas i go and spend the night.
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[ilyy♥joziahh ]
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I think you should sit down with just her and talk to her about what's bothering you. Being upset about it but not addressing the problem will only leave you upset and needing closure.
-brent.
p.s Welcome to bloop.
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[Brent Alejandro]
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 Welcome to bloop.
The only thing I can think of is to say something to your friend.  It sucks but if she's worth it, then it's at least worth a chat.
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[love♥nik ]
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