It doesn't mean they are idiots just because they return to abusive men...I think it's really harsh to label someone as an "idiot" like that. You can't know what they are going through unless you have been there yourself. In a lot of cases, leaving is easier said than done.
holy hippopotamus. That would be a really evil thing to do to someone...especially your own family. Jeebus. Are people really that stupid and heartless?