I don't think seeing a counselor could hurt any. I think only good could come of that. Maybe something else in addition to the miscarriage is bothering you, and you haven't really realized it?
But I definitely think you should go, if only for one visit to see if it's something worth pursuing.
Maybe thats what you should do then, time is a great healer. It will take a while but you will get there. As long as you are strong, thats all that matters. xxx
Guys don't usually have the best judgement on who to talk to when they're worried/upset about something. At least not in my experience.
Have your drink boo, I say you definitely deserve one. Take one thing at a time, don't add Shane and his man problems to your grieving time - it'll only make both so much worse.
Do you first, and make sure YOU'RE okay.
Then give the kid hell. <3
hey girl, hang on......sorry you feel like this. Its no fun and a miserable place to be. not knowing and all.
my experieince is, if there is suspician, there is usually a reason for it. you check it out. just saying....
good luck with the hangover. I hate those.
good luck with the guy.
dry your tears today, and find comfort.
That is hard.
Maybe he needed someone to talk to, and figured that he couldn't talk to the other guys about it.
But that's what a mom is for! If that was the case, he should have opted to call his mom or sister or something. Not other chicks.
Drink on girl. I know it's bad to say that but I felt that way yesterday also.
You hadn't been there long had you? In which case it may have been you were under the trial period. Most companies have them, some just shout it louder than others. In which case it would be normal for this to happen. A shame though. Though as La Rana says, Look into it as for sick reasons they shouldn't be sacking you. Even if you had been there years and was sick frequently they still have to do it the proper way! x
WTF - you're not required to explain the nature of your sickness over the phone when you call in sick. You could totally challenge this as unfair dismissal. I see from your FP that you worked in a residential home, and I know from experience that staff in care homes can be utter bitches, but seriously, I'm pretty sure they can't legally sack you for this - if you challenged it, they wouldn't have a leg to stand on. Although, realistically, you're better off finding a better job elsewhere, where you're not treated like shit. I find the best care homes to work in are those owned by the local council. Then NHS - and the worst ones are private ones. (I'm guessing you worked in a private one, as NHS and council ones literally aren't allowed to just sack someone like this).
It's expected huni. Your emotions are going to be everywhere, your homoanes will be everywhere too. Shane prob wont understand what you are going through and he will prob get frustrated because he doesn't understand so it may put some strain on your relationship. If you can work through it though things will be good. I hope he can support you through this tough time. xxx
That's so crap that they didn't warn you it would give you labor-esque pains! What a terrible thing to do to anyone. Pain like that is definitely easier to endure when you have the opportunity to brace yourself for it.
I'm glad he was there for you to help you. I'd be scared to think about what could have happened if he hadn't been there to help you
Maybe sometime soon the two of you could try for a baby? He may be sad as well and not showing it.
You *were* in labour.
And be sad. It was a death, and your body would mourn even if your brain didn't, and your brain is too. So cry. Cry and cry and cry.
*hug* My condolences.
I've never had an abortion but I would have thought they would have got rid of the "remains" sooner rather than later due to risk of infection. I don't know. As long as you don't have to wait too long for your appointment.
As for the course you were meant to go on, I would argue rather than pay the £50. If they don't tell you, how are you supposed to go on it? Also they should have questioned why you were in if they knew you were on a course rather than give you a letter a bit too late and say you have got to pay for it. Argue it. I would.
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I don't think seeing a counselor could hurt any. I think only good could come of that. Maybe something else in addition to the miscarriage is bothering you, and you haven't really realized it?
Maybe thats what you should do then, time is a great healer. It will take a while but you will get there. As long as you are strong, thats all that matters. xxx
LOL! I would never date a guy that is bald & fat *shudders* YUCK. ♥
I'm so sorry.
