I don't have any kids. But I don't understand why people wouldn't want to have their children born in the hospital. And I hate people who judge others for not breast feeding. I'm a person who was raised on formula and huggies! I don't think I turned out too shabby
Eh, my daughter is going to need therapy just for the first two years of her life. lol
I get it all the time, 'Your daughter would have gained weight better had she been breastfed' blah blah blah. A lady I worked with told me my kid looked under weight, she asked me if she was formula fed, I said yeah soy and she began her lecture that my next kid better be breastfed because formula just isn't healthy. I explained to her that, unless her doc says otherwise, she's a healthy weight; she has a fast metabolism.
She had surgery in August, lost six pounds and just got back up to pre-surgery weight and she's an active kid.
All the other ones that question me or lecture me, I just ask them the simple question: 'Is she your child? Does she look unhappy and malnourished? No? Well then, shut the hell up.'
It gets old after a while. lol
good rant, and worthy of the printing~~
yes, formula fed babies are fine, birth at hospital in my opinion is the way to go. YOu are ready for anything teh baby needs, aplus you get to use drugs if needed , and you get to rest afterwards while someone cares for the baby in a warm nursery.
I delivered 3 kids in the hospital. Doing it at home would have been heroic, but theres no future in being a hero. and my kids didnt remember any of it BTW.
beautiful rant, I really dislike the women whom judge me because A) I really wanted drugs, but couldn't have them; B) I couldn't nor did I want my daughter attached to my breast all the time and C) I vaccinated on schedule.
That's my mini-rant.
Lol! I used to write there to.
I now only write here and live journal. But weirdly with my computer gone, I cannot get my phone to enter the body text-- only the title!! Argg, I use that site for more serios matter, and here for light hearted daily things.
Yes, ads, frustrating, ....
Oh I missed you! How are you?
Busy I see with Jake!!!
Funny, I had been thinking about little mighty the other day
I will have to check back and visit you again soon.
hey, maybe it will be a good thing? I dont know. sounds like you see it coming.
I got in a shit load of trouble last night for being on the computer till midnight, and got yelled at for an hour. ugghh......we had senceless words, and I wished he would ask me to leave.
guys love throwing that term around, sometimes as a game, just to see if you will bow down to them and apologize for stupid things THEY did in the first place..or, sometimes, sadly enough they are being serious and would actually go through with it..just because again, you wronged him...in some way only clear to him.
other than that, not sure what I was going to even say...hope whatever happens is something you can live with..
unfortunately, I know what you mean. My husband got so unapproachable and defensive at any type of confrontation---even if it was a kind approach or when I was pissed ultimately. didnt even matter if it was justifiable either. I could have been in the right, but his pride and stubborness was in the way.
You dont want to know what happened in the end.
But , it did just drive us further and further apart. reinforcing me to not comunicate, and I started to withdraw more and more. I am like you, I did it all and never complained.
this sounds so familiar to the way Ben is with my things, and he gets mad also when I ask him to be more careful. cds and dvds are replaceable, even it means waiting months to buy a new copy. they are expendable..yet, when Alex was a baby, and sometimes even now, he will find Ben's games, or dvds and would play with them and scratch them up, and THAT is unacceptable..
I secretly thought, while I didn't intentionally let Alex do these things, that it was only fair, and maybe Ben would see how I felt...but, not really I guess, as those things still happen.
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Okay that rant just made my day! haha
Sounds like u got a little bit of chaos onyoir hands, but worth every minute of it. Its a phase, it'll pass soon. 
