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Why Do I Always Get The Toads??
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 That really doesn't sound like he has a healthy attitude towards you or your relationship. Definitely abusive warning signs, I'd give a long hard think about what you want and if you're going to end it with him do it soon.
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[amy]
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Why Do I Always Get The Toads??
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 Hey...if he's that horrible to you, kick him to the curb. There's no reason to put up with that. Atropos is right, he's definitely sounding like the abusing type. 
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[Tiffany]
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Because of you.......
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And looking back at this entry I see you've had your experience with that kind of sorry excuse for a man already. I'm sorry you've been there, no one should ever have to deal with those things. But you have, and you made the comment yourself that you're seeing this ex in the new guy. There is your #1 flashing red light. You know what they're like, don't let yourself get caught up with another one before it's too late, use your painfully gained knowledge to keep yourself safe this time!
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[Atropos]
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Why Do I Always Get The Toads??
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These sound like huge flashing red warning signs of an abuser. First acting super sweet and winning the person over, then once that's done they turn off the charm and start demanding all the person's time, don't want them doing anything with anyone else, and start wedging themselves in and cutting the person off from their friends & family. If I were you, I would cut things off NOW, get out and don't look back.
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[Atropos]
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Because of you.......
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I'm not sure. I don't know that I mentioned him to you. The two of us started seeing each other a couple months after Mat and I broke up and it was great for a while and then blammo! Apparently dumping someone via msn is okay. This guy is named Chris...so if that's who you think it was, yes, yes it is.
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[Tiffany]
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Because of you.......
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It's the good ones that are often more work and worth it. They're totally worth it. Don't let the assholes keep you down. You have to kiss a few frogs before you get your prince. And various other cliches.
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[Tiffany]
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My Grown-up Christmas Wish
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Oh no I don't mind it. Like I said hes a really great guy I don't want to make him sound bad at all. We ha e talked about it and hes getting used to the idea and hasn't turned it away so I'm hoping its a good sign 
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[Tattoogrl]
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My Grown-up Christmas Wish
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That's cool about seeing about going to St Lawrence College. It would be great to see you again. And it would definitely make it easier for you with your doctors here in Kingston.
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[Tiffany]
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When Will Things Get Better?
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You need to move to Kingston. I'd hang out with you and you could meet the friends I have here. You would fit in and it would be a fresh start.
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[Tiffany]
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When Will Things Get Better?
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I know that you love(d) him and are heartbroken, but if that's the kind of man (and I use man in the most general of terms) he is then it sounds like a lucky escape. He sounds like a truly awful person. Just because you might not be able to conceive and/or carry a child doesn't mean you'll never be a mother. Medicine can do wonders, and adoption is an amazing thing to do, there are surrogates, egg donors... there are plenty of options for you. Don't let that piece of scum dictate how your life should go. You decide, and it's okay to take your time. You're still young, younger than me! There are so many options, school, work, travel, a combination of the above, there's volunteer work with a huge range of charities, there's clubs and societies... Give yourself time, things will get better.
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[amy]
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When Will Things Get Better?
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I don't know you but i know you deserve so much more than what that guy could have given you. keep your head up and remember that someone out there needs you. a child whose mother never wanted him...you ARE a mom if you want to be...you don't have to push something through your you know what to care for and love a child and provide it with a loving home. THINGS WILL GET BETTER. I too am barren and also born in 89 which is why I was compelled to write you. please be strong. Let the fact that you're not alone be your strength. do things for yourself, stop being so hard on yourself and learn to self-love. You are a good person and you will find love with someone who will love you back just as much as you love them. Believe in this. Believe in your own strength. I wish you nothing but peace and happiness.
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[unbreakable]
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