They Just Don't Understand!!

Okay so the friends I had over this weekend ended up not being such good friends after all! We went to pick up a computer that they had promised us yesterday and all heck broke loose! Amanda and Josh are their names by they way! Anyhow, when we got there first of all I told them that they needed to get a dog sitter next time they came because the smell in the house was so bad that I had to LITERALLY get on my hands and knees and scrub the carpet because I was scared it would affect my child's breathing (she's got heart and lung problems)! On top of that Amanda is hobbling around on an injured ankle that she has wrapped up in an ace bandage. And the whole time that John and Josh are working on the computer she's complaining about how badly her ankle hurts. Well near the end of the visit Amanda decided to take the ace bandage off and nearly screams in pain. So obviously after being friends for 10 years I'm worried about the girl and I tell her that she needs to go to the hospital her response is "No it'll fix itself" so I said it again "Amanda you need to go to the hospital" and once more she says no! So I said look if its still hurting like this same time tomorrow go to the hospital or else I'll come back down and make you go myself. Well Josh chimes in "are you serious?" of course I was definitely serious, so Josh finishes the computer hands it to John and asks if he needs anything else well when John said no Josh turns to me and says "Now GET OUT OF MY HOUSE!!" I said "Excuse me?" he goes "Get out of my house NOW," to this I came back with "may I ask why?" and his response was "because this is my house and I have that right, Get OUT of my house NOW!!!!" So I shrugged told him that was fine by me and left! Well John followed me out and we left, needless to say both myself and John were FUMING, so John waited a while before he called to talk to Josh. He was greeted with "yeah I'm sorry I shouldn't have done that, wait a minute no I'm not!" and here I am thinking to myself Amanda and I have been friends for 10 freaking years surely she's not okay with him kicking me out of the house for being worried about her. But the next person to get on the phone was Amanda and she proceeds to tell John that Josh had every right to kick me out because I was irritating her about going to the doctor for her foot!!! Well I thought that would be the end of it but they just couldn't let that be, we get home and there is a message on our myspace...on for John from Josh and one for me from Amanda...Josh's was telling John that he was no longer going to speak to me (like I care) and Amanda's in fact here's her message and my reply: (Amanda) Ok, not trying to bi*ch... but the way you were speaking to me is what pissed Josh off. And honestly it was irritating me as well. I know that you are trying to look out for me but I am 23 years old and I can take care of myself. I said repeatedly that I did NOT need to go to the doctor... but you still pushed the topic. Paul used to do that to me, and you know this. And what is this sh*t about having John call?? If you needed to say something say it yourself!!! All the doctor would do is take an x-ray, find nothing, wrap it up, and tell me to stay off of it, ... which I wouldn't do any way... and give me some pain pills which I don't need anyway... It really bothes me the way you have changed... I still love you and care about you and that is the reason why I am telling you this. You don't need to speak to people like that to be heard. Trust me we hear you. Yu hvae greatly changed.. why are you so pissed off all the time. I love you and I want to help you. If you are mad at me fine I can understand. I would have expected the same from you or John if Josh or I had done something like that at your house. This is Josh's house and he was full in his right to ask you to leave.. I will not apoligize for it and niether will he, so don't even ask!!! Also the way you keep blaming everything on my dog... that ain't cool. If you were just doing it for Isabel then the house would stay clean no matter what. And you are a Mother now.. you have no days off!!!!! Ok, so now that I've probly pissed you off (not my intention) I will end this message with I love you (which I do) But you have got some thigs to work on Girl. Hope you understand and I do still want to be your friend. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------- (Me) First of all keep me and my motherhood skills out of this and I MEAN it!! SECOND of all if YOU had a problem with what I had to say you could just as easily have opened your mouth and said something! I don't give a sh*t if I irritated you or not I was actually caring...something I've done for years even though it's done no good! John called JOSH not you and he called him because he is a good man who worries about me! I didn't ask him to call, didn't even know he was calling you until you were on the phone. I don't want an apology because I'm not the only one who's changed! If you want to pick a boy you've been with for a few months over a friend you've had for 10 yrs. that's your business and I'm not worried about it! As soon as I finish this I will be blocking you and your little thing so don't worry about that! Therefore I will finish this with how I feel! I told you I was tired of everybody's BULL and you and Josh were included in that, I'm sorry that you're okay with letting your dog piss on other peoples stuff but I'm not okay with that! Although my house may have been cluttered when you got here it sure as hell didn't smell like that fu*king puppy of yours! I don't remember telling you, you could bring that thing but it would have been fine no matter what if you had been nice enough to clean up after it but I saw John pick up no less than three piles of that puppies sh*t, piles I had pointed out to you and Josh numerous times that were greeted with "I'll get it in a minute" or some nonchalant bull like that. We even left for THREE hours with the simple request that you pick up after your dog, yes I understand you did a load of dishes but all i fu*king wanted was for you to pick up after YOUR pet! And don't give me the whole "I was watching Isabel" crap either Josh has arms and legs he's not going to freak out over some trash and if he does OH WELL!! SO I will end this with I loved the Amanda that chose her friends, I love the Amanda that understood peoples problems, I love the Amanda who would have punched any man for talking to me the way that fu*ker did...I DON'T love who you've become and I'M NOT SORRY FOR THAT!!!!!!------------------------------------------------ After I sent that I deleted them off my friends list and blocked them from my site. Now Amanda has posted a blog about how if I've decided to end a 10 year friendship over an argument thats on me! They just don't get that kicking me out is not something I can forgive...had they told me how they felt then and there I would have apologized, let it go and that would have been that. But they didn't even have the decency to tell me to my face. Then what with her saying something about me supposedly having John call them (which I didn't) when she had to have Josh kick me out simply because she couldn't say what she had on her mind to my face...talk about hypocritical. I can't and won't forgive them for that...they did this NOT ME!!!

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