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May 3rd.
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Update!

06/15/2010

Court.
Court went very well!

It was weird sitting in the room, behind the desk and in front of the judge.
I answered all of his questions by saying "Yep!", and my mom made a mention afterwards that I should have answered with "Yes" instead of "Yep", but I figured that as long as I sounded happy and nice, that it would be okay.

Visitations.
I'm still waiting for a picture update.
They have until tomorrow, and that will be the two week mark.

My adoption counselor said that the adoptive parents are open to visitations, and just to let them know.

I know I said that I wasn't interested in visitations, but I want the adoptive mother to be able to tell Niklas someday that I tried to see him, and that I was interested in how he was doing.

I'm thinking that I might have one or two visitations for the first year, but at a certain point I will stop the visitations, because me and the adoptive mother both agreed that we don't want to make things confusing for him when he gets older.

That's about all I have to update on right now.
Thanks for visiting.
Quiet Rain

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it might be harder on you if you get vistation - for seeing him... but its better for him to know you were interested in him so yeah

[*~Amber~*|0 likes] [|reply]

*hugs*

[Cuban Vixen|0 likes] [|reply]

everyone is different, for me, a visit once a year works for me, and its nice to see him. I just was actually there last week

Glad court went well!

[The Mama Star|0 likes] [|reply]

It was good Did you see the pics?

[The Mama Star|0 likes] [|reply]

I think saying Yep is okay. lol

I think visitations are harmless for the beggining. And you're right, it'll be nice for the adoptive mother to tell him later on that you were the best birth mother.

~

[internationalStar|0 likes] [|reply]

i hope you get the picture update soon!

[brooke♥|0 likes] [|reply]

I think you're looking at it from the right perspective; although you don't want visitations, it will help him to know that his birthmother made the effort to see him.

Glad court went well for you!

[ Avonlea@ITW|0 likes] [|reply]

I think saying yep is okay :] I'm sure it wasn't the most comfortable or easy situation for you to begin with.

<3

UPDATE AGAIN! I miss reading you.

[-AndBabyMakesFour!-Star|0 likes] [|reply]

Hey just wanted to stop by and see how you were doing

[The Mama Star|0 likes] [|reply]

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