{1} I fear I am not a good enough mother. I mean, how can I be if I can hardly care of myself....let alone a child. Sometime I wish I wasnt a mother...but then I feel bad because I love my child with all that I am.
{2} Is he touching her? Does my husband ever think about that? What would I do if I found out he was? Am I horrible for thinking that about him?
The way I read this is does he touch her as in your CHILD, and if you even have to question that, then yes, it's HORRIBLE. If you have to think about that, then you should question your relationship.
Well a lot of mothers worry -- its natural I think its a sign of a good mother IMO if he tocuhes her innaporperatly then he's sick call 911 no excuses or explaintion and is there a reason WHY you would think he might?
How
long have you been a mother for? What is making you question whether or not you are good enough to care for your child?
I think that all parents struggle with their children from time to time, and it is easy to question ourselves as mothers because
truly "a mother's work is never done".
Please, do not feel alone. I myself have been there a time or two. In all honesty, stating that you "hardly care for yourself....let alone a child", (in consideration to your daughter), do you feel that
is in her best interest to be left in your care?
I am not trying to say that you are a bad mother or that you are not fit to be her caretaker. As parents, we often have to put ourselves and our needs, wants, & feelings on the back burner because
our children should always come 1st.
Do you feel that your child is suffering because of your choices, or is it because you feel that you are not mentally or physically capable of caring for her, loving her, and protecting her (mentally setting
yourself up to fail)?
If there is any question in your mind that someone may be "touching" your child, I feel that it is extremely detrimental to her safety & well -being to not investigate the situation further, until the question of "is
he touching her" is answered.
Molestation is so very devestating to a child, and it can ruin their life, and their soul! You are her mother, she is in your care, she is your child, your flesh & blood. Do not hesitate to take appropriate action
to get the truth & to handle to situation.
I apologize to you if you think of me as demanding or rude, or pushy. Keep this in mind though, it is YOUR job to protect your child! If you do not take action, NOBODY WILL & your child will most
likely suffer immensely!
Do the right thing, for your child & for your own peace of mind. You are a woman, a mother, born with the strength and ability to move a mountain! Don't give up on yourself! Your daughter needs you. Take care of yourself,
love yourself, & don't be so hard on yourself. You will be ok, just believe that you will be ok, & be the best that you can be for that little girl & for you.
I could understand her questioning it if she grew up in a situation like that. When you're molested as a child, it's difficult to not worry about the exact same thing happening to someone else you care about.
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