I have a boyfriend of 2 1/2 years..The other night i went onto this live chat site and met someone..He lives thousands of miles away yet we talk everyday..I feel horrible about this but I like this guy(not in a romantic way more in a friendship way) and I really dont want to stop talking to him. I feel like im cheating in a way..Is it wrong of me to be talking to him while im dating someone? And no he doesnt know im talking to him..thats why i feel so bad.
I mean... if you have no feelings toward this guy romantically, and you're not doing anything that could, by any stretch of the imagination, could be called cheating, why would you feel that way? You're allowed to have friends that are male without feeling like you do.
You can cheat on a person emotionally...not just physically...So if it feels like cheating - then yes, your cheating. Rule of thumb - if your doing something that you wouldn't feel comfortable doing infront of your significant other - then you shouldnt be doing it in the first place (there are clauses in that theory...but like I said...rule of thumb)
If your feelings are not romantic and only friendship than why feel guilty? I think it may be that you do like the guy in a romantic way, but you don't want to admit it.
maybe u need to tell him because when i gotten "busted" i thought i told him about this long friend of mine and i never met him just chatting and he saw the convo and asked who he was but i know i wasnt cheatin or feeling that way cuz i thought i told him... and he understood as long i wasnt too personal with him