Well, since Wednesday we haven't texted.
Actually, on Thursday he asked what I was doing at the time, and I was doing behind the wheel. Then he texted something flirty back that I didn't respond to. An hour later I got a duplicate of it and ignored that too.
I know he was in an accident. I'm not upset at all about him missing the "date" thing. However, I did think about what my opinion of a relationship at a young age was. Personally, I want it to be at least somewhat meaningful. I'm not going to settle for something just because "something is better than nothing." Unlike my peers, I don't feel a NEED to have a boyfriend. So, I thought about him and me, and I decided that I was too in-the-moment and really only wanted the title "boyfriend."
In addition, he and I don't really match on a lot of things. We have separate interests, mine being academic and his being ...hair. I like being a smart guy and I like smart guys, but he's fairly average. (Just read that text from last entry! I pride in my lack of txtspk.)
He is extremely flirty over texts. Like, unbearably so. I know that's picky, but I MET him a week ago. He was calling me "baby". That's a no-no.
So maybe I'm a picky bastard, but so far I'm not unhappy we aren't talking anymore. I know I'll have to deal with a "why don't we talk anymore?" text soon enough, but I think instead of wondering what I'm going to say, I'm just gonna get drunk off my ass tomorrow. |