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I went and saw mom yesterday for about two hours. My dad was there too. She looked and sounded really good. The one respiratory doctor came in and said she still sounded tight in the chest though. Mom said she didn't know what to think because she's had about four different ones since being there and they all say different things. First she's loose then tight in the chest and so on. She thinks...well, I don't know what she thinks. We just chatted about random bullshit from work, to kids, to movies, and so on. Then I had to leave so I could get home to get the boys. Jeff was there so I wasn't too worried about that but I'm not much on hospitals for sure. Hopefully she will get home today. They were waiting on the doc to come in with the results of her latest x-ray. Then he wanted her to walk for him to see how far she could walk on "room" air. I guess instead of oxygen. She said he might have to send her home on oxygen but she doesn't care as long as they send her home. lol. She told them that everything that she is doing there she can do it at home which is pretty much just sitting. I'm thinking mom are you sure? Not because I don't believe she should go home but man once she does then she'll have to listen to megan's kids raising hell constantly and deal with all that stress again. bleh. My sister has been taking advantage of it too. She knows that they don't like her new boyfriend staying at the house. Maybe if she ever grew up and did something for herself they wouldn't care. But being as she's not working and her money she gets from social services always seems to end up in a liquor bottle I don't blame them. Plus the boyfriend doesn't work either. She knows mom doesn't want him there that was the whole reason they came out and stayed at my place one night. But since Mom's been in she told me that he's been at the house with Megan. They're playing house as mom calls it. She's mad and was like man, we pay the morgage and she doesn't do shit. She's already gotten on Megan since being in the hospital telling her that the place better be spotless when she comes home because she's just not able to clean at the moment. Hell she can't even walk from her bed to the bathroom without gasping for air and it causing her pain in doing so. Luckily at home she has a wheel chair anyways so it won't be as much of a problem. I just don't want her relying on the chair cause otherwise she may not be able to keep her strength up. She was always telling that to both of my grandmothers and one of my aunts when they were sick and they didn't listen. Now two of them are dead. Not precisely because of that but it didn't help. Mom is stubborn though and she will be up in no time. She fights hard when it comes to this shit. Well, I have to get the boys and hubby up for work and school. If she gets to go home I may take off early. Though probably not because I need the hours. Jess let me go early yesterday when she found out and chided me for not having said something sooner. She was like anytime something like that happens just tell me. I have no problem whatsoever in letting people take off. Family is family and it's important. She's cool like that. But yeah I need the hours.
On a happy note I took the boys to a Halloween thing at the mall last night. Basically you just walk from store to store trick or treating for candy. They do hold a costume contest but we didn't sign up for that. I went with my sister and her hubby and kids. Megan was suppose to come to but she never showed up. Go figure, right? But it was fun. I feel so behind though. I never really got to decorate and we haven't carved pumpkins either. I didn't buy the kids a costume but we managed to make them up last night. I finally stuck a skeleton in the yard but that's about it. With all this work I'm just too tired anymore. It sucks really cause it doesn't feel like Halloween around here. Blah. I'm taking them to my bosses church tonight for some halloween thing that they do. Then tomorrow night we are going trick-or-treating somewhere. We are too far to take them to the old neighborhood so we're thinking this place called Lakewood where alot of people go. It's a really nice and big sub-division. My sister said something about going with us since she'll have all her kids for the first time in years. They want to go somewhere new. anyways tata!
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