Okay. So I kinda lied to you guys and I feel really bad for it. I promised pictures and stuff from vacation and the wreck and I have kinda slacked off. Not really just a little bit. We got home late Thursday night from Minnesota and then Friday Josh decided he wanted to move into the house early. So now we have been moving things and setting up all weekend and I still really haven't had time to. Now I am taking a break because he left for work and I have a homicidal migraine that won't release itself from my brain. But I will write some about the trip and whats going on picking up after the accident and all that since I wrote about it already.
We had our wedding party that Friday night and we got a crap ton of stuff from his family. We were lucky we bought the Journey instead of a car or truck because it would have never all fit in either of those. Practically my whole kitchen was given to me, outside of only a few things that I had to buy for it. But that was just like spatulas and a strainer I think. We exchanged a few things for others and traded up because I am really picky about like my pots and pans can't be cheap. I remember the first set I got coming to pieces in my food so now I freak out haha.
The first weekend we were there we went into the cities with our friends Tom and Nikki. That was alot of fun, went to the Mall of America, Acme Comedy Club and just sort of hung out. It probably would have been alot more enjoyable if I wasn't so sore from the accident and sick with a killer head cold and sinus infection but it was fun none the less. I have to say though I got mad at Tom later on in our trip because he texts Josh like every night asking if he wants to do something and when we are with his family gets upset. So Saturday we are having one of our two Easter dinners at his Aunt Pat's house with like 20 people in his family there and we are sitting around at like 9 playing poker. He texts Josh and asks if he wants to do something. Our wedding party had been the night before and we were out late so he told him he didn't want to go out drinking. Okay. So then all three of them ask me what to do and I suggest a movie or games . Nikki is too tired for a movie afraid she would fall asleep and Tom doesn't want to play games. So Josh gets this text back from Tom that says something about. "Your wife doesn't ever want to do anything does she?
So needless I was a little livid right off the top. I am not the bitch wife. NO ONE I repeat no one had any idea of what to do that late at night in a little podunk town so that does not make me the bitch wife. So the next text Josh gets says " I guess I will just see you in a year after you get back from Iraq then."
OMG! Is it just me or does this sound kind of petty. I guess without being in the situation you don't see it so much but he is always wanting Josh with him doing this or that. I was floored, at that point I was pissed. We had spent at this point more time with him since we had been there then our family. I told Josh do what he wanted but now I did not care to hang out with him because that was immature and rediculous. He does not need Josh to be by his side every waking second that we are home. And get this okay because again need I reitterate. I AM NOT THE BITCH WIFE. Monday was my birthday and Tom wanted him to go to their friend Ben's and play a game with them - I let Josh go., Yeah. I let him leave me at the house on my birthday to go play games with his friends. I didn't care, we had no plans. Yeah I would have loved for him to stay home with me but he is only home once in a while so I like that he gets to see them. Maybe I am being the petty one but I think I am his wife now and I have to live without him while hes in Iraq, you can live.
Anyways back to sunnier subjects. Josh was going to get me a birthday present while we were there but we decided instead he is getting me a puppy the next time he gets paid. Everything out of this check has gone to stocking this house and the trip home. It's been crazy busy and stressful.
Ooo and one last minute thing get this! We were coming back on base last night after going to watch the UFC fight with some friends and they card us as we come on as usual but then they are stopping EVERY car that comes on base for a vehicle/drug inspection and so they can urine test all active duty. What kind of BS is that? Josh was livid. And I wasn't so bad til I was sitting waiting on him in the car for over two hours. We finally got home after 3am. And that part that pissed me off the most was when I watch these poor parents with babies and kids coming on post and having to do it. What kind of crap is this..... bleh .. Anyways sorry just doing a rundown for you if I remember something I forgot I will post more later. And if I am feeling froggy YOU MIGHT get some pics lol
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