I was on fb a few minutes ago and on this 'facts' page they had a post saying....
'If someone stares you in the eye for 5 seconds or more they either want to kill you or have sex with you....'
If that is true I can name 3 people who did that to me....
My ex lead (aka crush...I stared back.....lol.)...sometimes I would look up and he'd be staring...we'd stare at each other and I'd smile at him in greeting..I liked him but to be honest I can't imagine he was interested in me...but he didn't seem hostal towards me at all..just friendly...
My ex supervisor...(creepy guy.... I kept blinking and looking away....)...he used to stare at a lot of the girls but I don't think he wanted me dead or sex....but like I said he was creepy....He didn't acknoweledge me at all at first because I was in his mind nobody special....he had eyes on my friend and these two other girls ...he didn't care to notice me until a lot of the leads praised me for the projects I completed for them during my trial to become an assistant lead to my crush...(we'll call my crush Al...and the creepy supervisor umm...Hector..)...Hector started to see my value after soo many others kept failing at their projects and that's when he started to stare at me creepy...Hector didn't like Al very much for some reason....all I can think is that Al knew how the company was and although he tried to help and explain this to Hector (who was new)...Hector didn't like it...Hector wanted to be the only one calling the shots but that's not how the company worked....we had another supervisor and Hector still needed to learn the details of everyones job before telling them how to do them...I heard he quit after a little while after the company move...
And the third person was this girl I worked with who I couldn't stand....(I gave her the 5 second stare too...and I didn't want to have sex with her...lol)...ugh I couldn't stand her....she seemed ok when she first started working with us but it didn't take long to figure out how two faced she was...I gave her a lot chances in my mind to prove that her personality wasn't that bad but she kept disappointing me...I typically get along with anyone...even if I don't like them...I'm nice and I'll help them out as best I can. Al put her on inventory with me and at first I thought it was cool...but then she kept complaining when I asked her to recount...its part of my job to do so if the number is off and I can't tell her how many there's supposed to be....she never wanted to check the tags...and well after some time she started to use her cell undercover...talking and ignoring the task at hand...gasing and telling me (gross)...and lots of bathroom breaks...which I'm sure were to make phone calls...she insisted I was too sensitive when I wouldn't even have a reaction or care towards what she was saying...soo I didn't understand why she would say that....:/....one day Al noticed the inventory was lagging really bad and I told him I could count some of it on my own if it wasn't for the stupid rule of having someone watching...lol..it was a joke (everyone knew I hated that rule) but he took it seriously and decided to take (we'll call her Val) Val off inventory...that wasn't what I meant but I didn't say anything because honestly I was stressed out doing the inventory with her anyways because I wasn't sure if she actually paid attention to the tasks even tho I kept on her to pay attention...she didn't stay paying attention.....and if the inventory had a lot of mistakes it was my arse on the line....Anyway the next day comes along and Val asks Al why she was taken off inventory....lol...he told her ask me....(what an ass...lol)....soo she kept bothering me all day as to why...I told her Al made the decision not me....soo she decided to list off the reasons why she could of been taken off inventory....which was a long list....(which in my mind would make me not surprised and I wouldn't blame someone for me being taken off inventory if I had a list like that)...my mistake was to tell her that she shouldn't use her cellphone soo openly cause she could lose her job....later my friend (we'll call her Tiana cause she reminds me of the Disney Princess....) Tiana told me that Jess told her that Val said I was hating on her and got her taken off inventory by telling on her about the cellphone.....which everyone knows...I don't tell on them....I typically mind my own business...And hating on her? That's laughable...she had nothing I wanted...she wasn't particularly attractive to get Al to notice her...and she didn't even know I liked Al to begin with....I didn't actively try to make trouble for her...I didn't care if she kept her job or lost it at that point...and she wasn't what I'd call competition when it came to work...I was always more focused and I was told that non of the boxes I worked on had any mistakes versus hers...I was always on time and ready to work...I knew my job and she came to me with questions...soo hating on her?...yeah right.......anyway after that she continued to be bitchy towards me with a smile soo I shouldn't take it wrong....lol. She tried to blame her mistakes on me...and would ask stupid questions I would answer continuesly even tho she kept not hearing....I had a lot of patience with her...but on a bad day of repeating myself....I stopped...and she stared at me with an annoyed expression...I stared back....and then she was like 'oh so fuck me huh?...you're not gonna answer my question?...bitches..' and walked away...later Al told Tiana that Val said she asked me a question and we laughed at her and wouldn't answer it.....I answered 5 times in a row....nicely...I didn't laugh...Tiana did and it was after Val called us Bitches....I told her never mind her and continued to work....well I was soo pissed off after I did over time...Al, Tiana, and Nester had my back....lol...but I was pissed that she told on us and lied about it....It wasn't the last time she decided to be that way to me...after awhile I stopped helping her with checking her work because she'd do something wrong after I checked and said I was at fault....Al told me that she's responsible for her own job that any mistakes she makes is on her...Well after missing work every Saturday and Monday...they finally let her go....during that time the other lead Rick liked her....she always put on a fake face for the leads and then became her true self when they weren't looking....my friends/coworkers disliked her..(not by my influence...I never really said anything to them...)..she talked a lot of crap and generally pissed them off when they were being nice.....she always brought out the worst in everyone....I told Al later that I was surprised it took soo long for them to let her go cause she messed up soo often...even 1st shift noticed....I told him I was close to telling her off....he said...and I quote 'I'm not gonna lie that would have been hilarious...'...lol. Ass.... I'm quiet and nice to everyone typically soo he thought it'd be funny...smh....even my friend Tiana said she was hoping I slapped her that day she called us bitches...lol...the workplace is no place to do stuff like that....lol...even tho it happened with a lot of people often...lol....
Soo I think its safe to say that she probably wished me harm..lol..and well I don't know what was going through Al and Hectors heads when they stared...
Oh..! Nester stared at me too..he's actually a chubby chaser..lol..soo its possible...but I didn't stare back...I liked him as a friend....he has a girlfriend now and she's chubby and they make a cute couple... |